Can I have sex with my partner during pregnancy?
In general, the answer is YES! It is completely safe for women who are experiencing a healthy pregnancy to have sex. You will not hurt the baby! Many couples find the increased freedom from family planning (she’s already pregnant!), increased circulation and sensitivity in the genitals and breasts, and the rounded pregnant form to be very sexy indeed. However, keep in mind that as your partner’s body changes, she may be experiencing discomfort that will make sex temporarily less pleasurable for her. Her breasts may swell to two-three times their normal size and while you may want to explore these new toys, they can be very sensitive and painful. Nausea and vomiting would cause anyone to feel out of sorts, as do the aches and pains of carrying a growing baby. Your partner may also not feel very sexy as her waistline expands and she has swollen hands and feet. Do your best to be sensitive to her needs, and understanding when she isn’t “in the mood.” Back and foot rubs, hugs and cuddling, helping with household chores, and the reassurance that you love and admire her new shape are great ways to show affection.